Sexism! It’s not a one way street.

I see so much sexism.

More then I have ever seen before in almost 55 years of watching life.

Stay at home parents of both sexes receive allot of it but a stay a home dad sees so much and is harassed so often.

Shopping with the kids and they are stopped and harassed.

Taking the kids to the park on a week day and the police are called to see if the dad has kidnapped them.

Man mentally and physically abused by his wife tries for the 100 time to file a police report with Seattle police department and fails again to be allowed to do so.

Man spends 20 years trying to get her and himself help and has to document and photography the abuse in an attempt to get children and family services to help.

Same man is laughed out of court when trying to get a restraining order against his wife.

Man tried to file for divorce and can’t find a lawyer that will help with the documentation and proof of abuse.

Man represents himself in divorce court.  To a unbelieving judge submits over 1000 pieces of evidence of police misconduct, violations of his rights by his wife, the Seattle police department and officers of the court.

Wife is not punished. Judge will not recommend her be punished and actually says to the man why didn’t you defend yourself.   Submits as evidence the one time he did and the ensuing arrest record and testimony of witnesses who said he was just defending himself from his wife.

Petition for divorce is granted on the grounds of irreconcilable differences.  NOT on spousal abuse because it could cause mother to loose the ability to see her children.

If it had been the man abusing her it would of been very different.

Washington State Department Of Health 

sexist posts on social media.

We are all sure we all need breaks not just women.

Just wondering why they are showing these women exercising together when in Washington state at this time all gyms and this sort of gathering are in violation of the goobenors unconstitutional orders.

Sexism is wrong no matter who is receiving it.

Most of it I see now is making men the victims of it and it is being perpetrated by government agencies.

My personal thoughts regarding these orders.

I can no longer afford to suffer to be made a slave by submitting to these orders.
I am not one that takes orders or follows rules. I am the one that gives the orders to the elected.
By our vote and by standing up together against unfair and unjust orders and laws.
I am a law abiding citizen of the republic and will follow constitutional law.

I made the mistake of submitting voluntarily out of FEAR and preservation of my family and customers lives.
I can no longer.
I am not saying they are not worth it.
But We each are and must be responsible four ourselves.

If we choose to continue to live our lives as normally as possible taking the precautions we feel are needed like masks, more thorough hand washing and sanitation.
America can open and life can go on.

It is also not as if the stimulus package, meant to help American small businessis actually reached them.
Graft and malfeasance of the banks, czarist entities and even our elected officials that were to spread the magic (pulled it out of thin air) money around, have just lined their coffers, funded their pet projects, charges fees against the funds and Filled the big businesses pockets.

Citizens who just want to pay their bills and feed their families by working or running their businesses are being arrested, fined and made examples of by their state.
Where does it stop if we don’t stand up NOW!

I can not ask the retired business owners who took a chance on me by carrying a business property loan to wait for their monthly payments.
My business must open now or close forever.

So we all should mind our own business people.

Even if it is a business OR if it is just keeping our holes shut and taking care of ourselves.
Let America open.

C19 shutdown had unexpected results.

C19 shut down with unexpected results.

I was over at a friends business that has been shut down Since March 15 and is now getting ready for reopening.
There was a man helping her husband with equipment in another part of the building.
We cleaned and straightened for a while and I needed to use the facilities and went and did so.
As I was in the women’s bathroom on the throne I realized the room appeared to be having some work done on it as their was paint and brushes in the corner.
As I mused the paint can and brushes, I kept feeling some strange sensations on my bum.
kind of  like tiny little feet walking across my bum.
Weird!  I thought maybe I had sat to long and was going tingly numb.
Seconds later It happened again this time closer to the front!
I thought what the heck!
Then the horror of a thought! How did I get crabs!
I haven’t had sex since my divorce.  But then remembered high school health class and that 8 could get them from a toilet seat used by someone who had them!  Is that true I thought? Ewwww.
 I Never had them but always heard they felt pretty weird and itchy.
Hurriedly finished my business and grabbed a handful of TP as the sensation of tiny feet spread across my genitals and bum.
Hurriedly cleansed and as I pulled my hand back there were about dozen of tiny little spiders on my hand.
Shook them off jumped up and felt allot of scrambling of tiny legs going on.
Something larger was TRAPPED right in the crack of my bum!
I suddenly had a idea what was happening and shuddered in revolution, grabbed a large handful of TP and wiped really hard as something struggled against my body!
     I smashed the disgusting thing of nature against me!
I felt only tiny things ...NOW.  Tiny little feet!!

this is what I imagined.
I Looked at what I had smashed and sure enough it was a LARGE SPIDER.

It had been covered with its young!
I then proceeded to smash wipe and 👋🏻 slap all over my Backside as I danced, ran in place, and around and around in circles in the ewwwwwwwww revulsion dance and cried out in horror!  🥴
SMASH, SLAP, smash, slap, slap slap slap smash smear smear slap till my butt was RED!

I finished the Eeeeeeewkey dance and settled.

Stamped and stomped  a few stray baby spiders on the floor.

SIGH, GASP, GAG

Suddenly I Felt crawlies on my legs. @#$!

Oh NO!

I thought, Is it my imaginations or did they fall down the inside of my pants?!

I Quickly stripped!  Looked down at my feet and thought how are my shoes still on my feet?

I threw my pants and undies on the floor and proceeded to stomp them.

I was nude for the waste down, RED (after all was said in done I found I had slapped myself so hard I left finger welts on my bum) my spider bite butt towards the door as I again danced and stomped on my clothes.

In stepped the man that was working with my friends husband.

Now I was red all over.

He turned and walked out muttering sorry.

I shook out my clothes.   Pulled them on with a few gags and watches as I felt little wet cold spots against my skin.

I came out of the facility to hear my friend and her husband standing outside talking and questioning why the other friend had left.

I sat down on a town bench and they asked what was wrong so I told them this story. As they and then I joined in with long and loud laughter that could be heard all over Main Street.

I never did meet him.  Apparently he left muttering something  my friend  did not catch.

My spider bites are healing and I have had no ill effects accept when I feel something on my skin.

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